I recently took the CliftonStrengths assessment. I think I’m being monitored. Not even kidding a little.
It is EERIE what they know about me.
I recommend the test. It’s around $20 for the basic test that gives you your top 5 strengths. To get all 34 strengths costs $49. If you can afford it, get the more expensive one. It’s worth it, but only if you really want to know yourself, and have vocabulary and tools with which to express yourself, and gain a roadmap to market and improve your strengths.
I intend to write individual blogs that address all of my strengths, along with my thoughts about them, and how they relate to my background and mental health journey. Also, though, I feel that it’s important to start with why the list feels so impactful to me right now.
I have spent most of my life in a dissociative state. The official diagnosis is Dissociative Identity Disorder, Not Otherwise Specified. I received that diagnosis in the psychiatric hospital, after my most recent crisis in October of 2020, a crisis directly prompted by my employer at the time. (I mention this because it is very relevant to past and current circumstances.) Because that led to me getting much healthier and more stable than I have ever been before, I don’t hold as much resentment as I could, although I am still very angry and frustrated about the whole incident, and that it left me in a very vulnerable place in many ways.
One of the struggles I have had in my life has to do with relationships. I have never fully understood the complexities that underlie friendships, romantic relationships, and workplace acquaintances. I have trouble deciphering nuances, boundaries, and appropriateness within relationships of any kind, and because of my deep desire for intimate emotional connection, and my desire to help people, I often find it difficult to stay in shallow emotional waters.
Combine that with executive dysfunction from my ADHD and you have a very large potential for disaster. VERY large potential. I know, because I have disastered many times in my life. And there’s always been factors at play that I couldn’t understand or explain. Except now, finally, I can.
And it’s amazing to be able to describe what’s going on in my brain. And ironically, it’s helping to make sense of the latest disaster that came on the heels of this week of revelations.
But that’s for another day.